it's frustrating because I've been wanting to catch up with her for awhile but it keeps not working out. I know I have some problems with being addicted to talking about myself/addicted to venting, so I don't know if I'm irritate because I want to share with her I can't, or if I'm being controlling and wanting to control how close we are but not being able to. I don't know how to see the difference between addictive and manipulative behavior, and normal trying-to-become-friends behavior.

I don't know what to do at times like these when I'm feeling really distraught.