Update. Well I gave my T & his Secretary gifts yesterday. He & I went throught this awkward dance of what's right or not in regard to opening the gift.
I didn't realize he preferred to open it after I left. Nonetheless, I told him if he didn't it was rude. He loved the calender most of all. He turned at beet red, and kept smiling. I explained to him that hopefully it will serve as a reminder to take a break sometimes. He really paid no never mind to the coffee mug & the teas.
I hope you guys find a way to express your gratitude to your T & Pdoc this holiday season. Many Blessings.

Belle