You make perfect sense, so delete that from your list of worries I'm lurking about mostly, sometimes bcoz my phone is a douche and sometimes coz I cant find the right words to express myself with. Even so, I want you to know that you are in my thoughts sis, even when I'm silent Please keep posting, purging is good, and you can rest assured that I'll let you know if I read a 'word salad' post by you... Love you stax