Is there ANY hope at all in this marriage? Would marriage counseling have ANY effect? Do you think that counseling is worth it? Are YOU open to it? Or are you pretty much just fed up?
I hate to see a marriage fail. If you think there's even a shred of hope in the marriage, why not at least TRY marriage counseling? Then, you can say that you tried everything in your power to save the marriage. If you don't try counseling, later on you may live to regret it.
It IS worth it, don't you think? See what your husband thinks, and then make the decision.
I wish you the very best. God bless you, and let us know what happens. Hugs, Lee