Marriage counseling's been tried before to no avail. He doesn't want to go, or when he goes he calls the therapists quacks and that they don't know what they're talking about, we've been to 3 different ones with same results. I don't want to end it either. We have 3 kids. But I can't continue to be treated this way. I have 2 girls, what kind of mother would I be to continue to receive this kind of constant verbal abuse? To be told to snap out of it when I'm not doing well or that I'm over reacting when I call him out on his comments. My daughter asked me, after we fought AGAIN, why you crying mommy? Cause daddy's always yelling at you?? Honestly, I just want him to stop treating me like crap, to appreciate all I do, to treat me like an equal again... I'm tired of being treated or talked to like I'm an idiot; tired of the double standard: if he does something wrong, it's whatever.. if I mess up, it's the end of the world!! It doesn't help my illness one bit! Family sucks, home sucks, I'm ready to call it all quit!!