Hi Darla.

I think Lee and Pfrog nailed it when they advised to get out ASAP. This man is horribly abusive...he should NEVER lay a hand on you, NEVER yell at you as he does, and you DESERVE loyalty in a partner. He has broken every single rule of basic, basic trust that a relationship should have, and then some. You deserve better, and he deserves to be arrested, frankly.

Get out however you can...none of us want to see this progress any further.

Please know I wish you all of my best, and I hope things work out.