So I stewed about the weekend long enough. we spent time talking about it today in session, and then it came: "i am most likely in the wrong. I have spent a lot of time thinking about the weekend. I overestimated and underestimated you. you got through it [the two and a half weeks with no t] so well that i thought you should be able to get through this as well. i underestimated tho, how much effort it took you." I really needed to hear that from her.