Thank you Ozzie, Greg, and Mark...
I wonder now what her motives of last nights conversation really were. I have a brother getting married this weekend and we are going to be in a motel all weekend for the wedding... we had asked long ago if she could go with us and today she told her daughter that it was ok for her to go with us. Yes she and my son will be in the same room as I am and in different beds but still the same she trusts us enough to allow her to go 100 miles away for the weekend...I'm totally confused at this point.