Infuriating I know. Hopefully you can get it out of his system! Sorry all this stress is especially hurtful when your pregnant. I have had similar woes myself and I'm still married....but he has cleaned up his act. Curiosity killed the cat, and you can call me Curiosity my friend. (perhaps he wants to show you off to his old flame? maybe he want to flaunt you and your family to the likes of his old friends? this is the only acceptable alibi in my book. one can hope)