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Old Sep 16, 2006, 02:47 PM
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Kellyann said:
If you find out why men are like this, please let me know. My husband is the nicest guy, but terrible husband....

Anyway, I cannot understand him. We have only been married 7 years and we are drifting apart faster and faster. I just get treated like a slave and not a partner. So I would agree hubands GRRRRRRRR

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I guess this is all we have to hold onto - if you believe this to be the truth of the matter......

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If you want your husband to continue the “pursuit” and to “woo” you, you have to get over the idea that it should come naturally to him. Most guys want to please their wives, but truly, truly don’t realize that what they were doing when they were dating was something that would need to be continued over in marriage. And it feels awkward to them, and they need lots of encouragement, not criticism.

IMO & Expereience:
Men just do not seem to really care to put the effort into the woman once he has her..... and they are scared of being to close where the heart is concerned, therefore, they remain distant.


LoVe,
Rhapsody - (still sad) - - (and confused)