((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))
and that is coming from the wife of a man that had the first two problems as well and that has greatly hurt me, but good news is that we are still together (married 20 yrs) but I only stayed when I saw that he really wanted to stop............. he had to prove himself.
LoVe,
Rhapsody -

P.S.
YOU have taken the first step in healing by admitting the truth of your addictions, please be as honest with your wife tonight (or) you will hurt her even more.