Hi Little ME,
This sounds so frustrating.
You might want to call her back to try and ask some of the questions you didn't get a chance to at the appointment. The whole point is for you to feel comfortable taking the meds. I'm glad you guys have such a good relationship. Maybe next time you two can agree to discuss meds first and then chat towards the end.
I hope your next appointment goes better in terms of setting up a plan and discussing what's not working with meds.