Thank you so much Daisy for this post ,I totally agree NO child can be bad after all they learn everything including behaviour from there home .I have 3 boys 2 are under 12 and I alway's apologise if I shout and its unjustified ,after all if somebody shouted at me 1st I'd feel horrible but secondly my initial reaction would be to shout back. I wont say I never get angry with my kids but now I just sit them down and ask them why they acted in that behaviour and it has made such a difference we all talk openly . I also teach my son's (since a young age) that we all have emotions but it is how we react to those emotions are important .I also tell my boy's one of whom has Aspergers NEVER hide their feelings always come to me or their dad ,it is SO important to make children aware of the feelings they experience so they can name them and get good at dealing with them so in there adult life I hope they do the same with their kids .Now some people dont agree with me talking to my kids so openly about feelings and awarness to suicide but I alreadythave had my young boys come to me so many times confused as to why they felt the way they were . XXX