Thanks, Echoes, your article was interesting.

My T really notices what I say in session. For example, one session I started complaining about how I kept forgetting to do simple things at work, that it was so embarrassing. Later in the session, I was talking about how I had difficulty remembering him while he was gone, I mean like remembering who he is, like an object constancy thing, if that makes sense.

Anyway, he tied the two together, and I never would have. I thought it was really interesting. He did this again with another topic. I haven't figured out if there is a correlation between how I feel about one thing at work and how I felt about him while he was on vacation. But I think that this would be an example of referring to the subconsious/unconscious.