EV, I would have said the same thing until this year. My father began "grooming" (thats what the T calls it) my daughter in order to do the same thing to her. No one would ever have thought that such an "honest, upstanding, good man" could ever do such a thing. But it is true and my husband and I watched it without understanding what was happening. Suddenly, everything clicked and I ended up confronting my father and mother. He is in treatment now. I don't know how everything will turn out.

I also agree with what Candybear said. It is bad enough that he did this to you.