I agree with Tanya...

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It is hard to take help. I think maybe by being the one who always gave in the past, I was sort of holding people away from me.

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I find it hard to accept help too ... I'm just learning how to do it - and man it is hard!!

I'm glad your home got a facelift and that you can sleep more soundly at night January - you most definetely deserve it!