somebody i think this 180 degree turn around just proves that whatever her concern is it relates to something in her own head and doesn't really reflect on any real judgment against you. so i hope at least that aspect won;t upset you and you can put it behind.

as to the cutting, are she and your son pretty serious as bf/gf? because if her mother is oblivious to that maybe at least she can get comfortable talking to your son and to you about it and maybe you could steer her toward some help. as others have said though that might cause another backlash from this woman for "interfering" but if it is the right thing to do hopefully everyone will be able to come to their senses.

Is it possible this girl is manipulating her mother, possibly even with the cutting? Of course this is not something to be taken lightly and i'm not even saying that she is doing it outright to get what she wants... but maybe the mother recognized that the daughter was upset about having the trip canceled and changing her mind and giving permission all of a sudden is her way of "solving" the problem?

hopefully this can all be resolved in the best interests of everyone, and with your peace of mind preserved.

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