Dearheart, I totally understand. I had 2 kids, and I took it for 26 years until both my kids were grown -- and THEN I got out. Dumb, huh? But he was gonna take my kids away if I didn't stay. I should have put a hit out on him. LOL No wonder I was in therapy for YEARS.

I don't blame you one bit. Your kids will be much happier & healthier. God bless you and please take care! Hugs, Lee PS -- Happy Holidays!