Dearheart and all,
This sounds like my marriage but I am the mean, nasty one. Nothing my husband does is right in my eyes. He annoys me just by being. There is so much irritability in me. I have MDD. I am surprised he hasn't left. Had it been me in his shoes, I would be long gone. Could the MDD have anything to do with my behavior?

I am currently taking lexipro, synthoid, lamictal, nortriptylin, ambien and wellbutrin, plus a blood pressure med.

I hope you can get your issues resolved. Could your husband be suffering from depression too?