Well my T says that it takes time to heal and get my depression under control and then I should be able to sustain a relationship.
When I posted that, I was in a position of being down and not happy.
I have had my power nap and getting ready to go out with my ex and my daughter to get groceries for the Christmas dinner we are going to have together, so right now I am up and hopeful.
Time will see how it all turns out of course, but I see another relationship as off in the distance, even though I really need one NOW.