I know I she will always be a part of his life. . . and mine, but I'm not a punching bag or a scape goat. It's the least dramatic way that I'm looking for. This is all new to me. How do I assert myself and let her know that it if she has a concern about my relationship with BF and the impact on Daughter, then she needs to talk to me or BF about it? Not pretend everything is ok and then tell the town that I'm to blame.