I know it's hard, but "normal" people don't think the way that you, or I do. They don't obsess about people, don't understand how others do. He has time for you, I'm sure. He just doesn't have 24/7 for you, which is what your mind is demanding. You are looking at black and white....you idolize him...he doesn't want to spend 24/7 with you, you hate him. Splitting. Relationships do make the BPD stuff so much worse. Try to think about how other people think. I know it's hard because it's not how you think. He probably likes you but doesn't see the necessity of spending every moment with you. That's the way "normal" people think. I don't think normally either, but it you can internalize it and try to accept it, maybe you can give it a try...I don't know. Food for thought, I guess. Best of luck.

I have problems with relationships...any kind...virtual, romantic, friendships, doesn't matter. I definitely understand.