I'm sorry but I disagree. I think if it makes you sick, then you have to take care of you. The old people have each other. Obviously they didn't take care of you the way they should have, for whatever reason. Yes, there is only one of you. Let's keep that you alive. I know that the only reason my mother wants to see me is because people are asking her about me and she doesn't know what to say. That's HER problem, not mine! All she really cares about is seeing my brother. I lived with her for 3 years and she couldn't be nice to me for one single day. It's time to face the truth about our families. My mother insults my therapists also. You decide where you are happier.