hi
I dont come here much. But I have AvPD. Did you know there are 2 established message board groups for people who live with AvPd? group online for people who have AvpD? you can find links to join both groups by going to avoidantpersonaliy .com ( I seperated the url address because I do not know if it is permissable to post it). Just look for the "msg board" tab near the top of the page. Maybe this will help. I used to go to the chatboards. They seemed very well run and productive as well as supportive.