I have a really cool aunt who, over the past couple years, I have really connected with because of Facebook chat. We haven't talked very recently on chat but I still thought really highly of her. Well she posted something on Facebook about how you can only find value in life if you believe in god, and without going into some religious conversation, I posted something saying that without god I still have value on my life and that I value her very much and that I love her. I thought she would be totally ok with it because she supports my situation, living with my boyfriend, leaving christianity, being bisexual, everything I have told her she supports. Well, the next day I could not find the comment I made on her post. So I thought maybe it was Facebook acting up, so I posted the same comment again. The next day it was gone again. She had been deleting my comment. I got mad, but didn't talk to her. I feel so negatively about her. I don't want to feel this way, but its so black-and-white thinking with BPD I guess that I can't simply forgive her and move on. She feels like an enemy now and I don't know what to do. Does anyone understand this? What has worked for you?