I'm at a loss and stuck in how to express most things. My H is a great friend but we have no intimacy. I just finished reading Pysch Central's newsletter and it was about sex and intimacy. I wouldn't even know how to bring this up with my T or with my H. We are not interested in it I guess and it makes me feel bad. I'm sure my past has most to do with it. I know I'm not normal and that is ok but I do want to be healthy in all ways at some point or at least try to be. We both workout, eat good have family times etc. but no "us time". Been married for 18 years and I know how thankful I am for that with 2 beautiful children. I don't want to be greedy and feel like I need more. Maybe I don't need more. Although I think sharing and talking might be important to have in a relationship and I don't have friends that I do that with so I guess it's very lonely in my life.