My husband had recently "organized" an affair with a former co-worker (the lady now lives abroad) through Facebook. When he was sent on a business to the city where she lives, they met, and they had the affair. I found out about it two weeks ago and he ended it. He says he loves me but felt no passion. We will start therapy soon. He is polite but can't answer any of my questions, why/how/how to go on. He looks at me fondly, like he'd look at a good old dog. We've been married for 11 years, I'm 11 years younger than he is and I'm wife number 2. Any hope that I can turn from good old dog into a woman again?