Roadie I stay with mum, wouldn't leave her after dad died & then couldn't.You're right,I only have my room. When she returned from the beach, I was very clear that I'm relaxing in MY room coz I have to be up at 4:30 for work after a night on the couch, & she said 'well I'm taking a short nap too' & plonked herself across my bed,obstructing my use of the laptop! Subtlety doesn't work & hostility for once isn't comfortable.My comfort zone has been invaded,I feel violated