I think you're the boss of you. Sometimes other people can see things in us that we can't, so depending on how we're doing at the moment, we might have to take their word for it. But when things calm down, you might be able to talk to them and have a real conversation. But if people are afraid you are going to hurt them or even yourself, yeah they get all up in your business, no matter what it is about. That's what all the laws are supposedly about.