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Originally Posted by krisakira
That sounds kind of closed minded. I prefer open conversations, and I am not looking for debates or arguments. I am looking for my views to count too. She made the statement public, not just on her own wall. It was as a status that everyone could see, and she accepted many other comments made to the post. I had every right to say what I did, and she had every right to delete it since she has the power to do that. However, it should be seen as this: if she says one thing, I should be able to say another, without it being totally discarded. Whether it is on Facebook or not. I thought she was a cool person. I thought she was perfect, I guess.
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You do have the right to state your views... on YOUR wall!!
You also have the right to hide her news feed.
Her deleting your comment says NOTHING bad about her or you...
If you write a comment on your wall stating that you're proud of being bisexual... Do you really want comments from people who disagree with that life choice writing something like... You're going to hell or would you prefer for them just to ignore your comment. You may have no problem with it, others would and may choose to delete a comment like that. Everyone is different..
It's just like me stating my views about politics.. I'm open to people with like minded views posting their comments. I have 0 interest in reading opposing viewpoints from Republicans, and delete them... It says nothing bad about them... All it means is I'm not interested in their viewpoints when it comes to that topic. They have a FB page and they're free to post whatever they like about their views.
- on the flip side -
Rather than state your belief/viewpoint it may have been better to phrase it in the form of a question such as... Is it not possible for someone who doesn't believe in God to value life? It forces her to then elaborate on her viewpoint in a non threatening way.