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Originally Posted by cboxpalace
You do have the right to state your views... on YOUR wall!!
You also have the right to hide her news feed.
Her deleting your comment says NOTHING bad about her or you...
If you write a comment on your wall stating that you're proud of being bisexual... Do you really want comments from people who disagree with that life choice writing something like... You're going to hell or would you prefer for them just to ignore your comment. You may have no problem with it, others would and may choose to delete a comment like that. Everyone is different..
It's just like me stating my views about politics.. I'm open to people with like minded views posting their comments. I have 0 interest in reading opposing viewpoints from Republicans, and delete them... It says nothing bad about them... All it means is I'm not interested in their viewpoints when it comes to that topic. They have a FB page and they're free to post whatever they like about their views.
- on the flip side -
Rather than state your belief/viewpoint it may have been better to phrase it in the form of a question such as... Is it not possible for someone who doesn't believe in God to value life? It forces her to then elaborate on her viewpoint in a non threatening way.
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I disagree with you about how Facebook works. When you put something public on Facebook you are opening yourself up to comments, either agreeing or disagreeing. If she didn't want comments she would have made it private. I didn't try to argue with her, I simply stated that without god I still have much value in life and in her and that I love her. That is nothing negative at all. Plus, this problem I am having is not about who was right or wrong. I am having trouble figuring out why I believe she's an enemy when I don't want to feel this way. I want to be close to her again and I don't know how to shake the feeling. I am seeking advice on how to forgive for stupid things so I can get past this and have my aunt back. That is why I posted in the BPD section. I am still learning about it and how it affects me, and I'm starting to see it in my life. But thank you for posting and giving your opinion, because I value everyone's opinion and I thank you for giving your time to post on my thread. I may not agree with you entirely, but it did make me think.