Okay, here is a quick description of my current situation....I am married have four children am 4 months pregnant. I am currently a business owner and have a small shop that I have been running for two years. I am getting ready to close the shop and go out of business because 1) I'm pregnant and will not be able to run shop by myself with newborn 2) I have been thinking about closing shop anyways because no matter how hard/long I work I can barely profit with the overhead plus daycare for 4 soon to be 5 children 3) I would prefer to be a stay at home mom again feeling like other people are basically raising my children and not spending enough time with them. I want a divorce from my husband, I realize that in y state you cannot get a divorce while pregnant you have to wait until baby is born and paternity established. So, for now I would like a separation and for my husband to move out of the house until we can get a divorce. He makes 100k a year and would not have difficulty in being able to afford a place of his own. Problem is, he doesn't want a divorce and refuses to leave, so what do I do? What are my options? I feel completely trapped and extremely deppressed and unhappy? Does anyone have any advice?????