I can't figure out how to edit a post, so I'll just reply...it's not like I have no sexual desire (even though my sex drive gets lower and lower the older I get), I even fantasize about having sex, but to imagine doing it for real makes me want to puke. That and I want to have emotional intimacy so I need to want to have sex or I'm going to be very miserable. And/or the other person involved will be.

Is there any therapy for this or is it good that my sex drive is disappearing (so eventually I won't care at all if I'm completely celibate).