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Originally Posted by Michelle25
If I were you, I'd speak to a lawyer. Many will give a free consultation. If you do go, I'd suggest writing down as many questions as you can think of to make the most of the visit. Maybe you can still file for a legal separation. Tell the lawyer if you are unable to afford his fees and ask him for any suggestions and/or referrals. Do you think your husband really believes you're serious? Many married people say they want a divorce but they are just venting. Best wishes.  |
I think you are right and consulting a lawyer is going to be my only option for help! I think he knows I'm serious because normally I would have accepted his apology, believed his promises to stop and we would have made up and moved on by now but he knows I feel differently this time and that I am serious about wanting to split, I think actually seeing him masturbating to hardcore pornography at WORK at his desk in between customers really opened my eyes to what I have been dealing with for so long and what I physically and emotionally cannot handle in my life anymore! According to him this is normal, every guy does it, I am just a controlling prude!