A lot has been being in the middle of a move. My husband is in the military and we had three weeks notice that we needed to move, he had to be at a training thing and we didn't know where our next base would be. It's been three months living with my parents with our two year old. I did get to fly to see him for thanksgiving, and today he set a flight to come visit in a few days. We'll figure out what we are doing from there. It hasn't helped that there has also been mucho family drama on his side during this.