Little Me a question came up in marriage T about what men and women want. The T asked my H what does a woman want, my H said patience. When she asked me what does a man want I said sex. Yikes. I was so far off. She told us the correct answer. Women want to have a protector and feel safe and know that there H can be the safe one to turn to, to run to, to hold you and protect you. This is not what my H and I had going on at all. Infact he was my fear. I was afraid of him. He intimidated me and was loud and spoke down to me. Men want to be appreciated and respected by there wives. For there efforts to provide financially and emotionally.

I have sexual abuse in my background and it affects the way I deal w/ things. My H after 18 years is learning to adapt to me and my needs or lack of needs. Have you guys considered marriage T. It has helped us so much. We have so much further to go but now there is a light at the end of the tunnel.