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Old Dec 27, 2012, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by KUREHA View Post
It's not like I think she is totally lying - just not letting me know, so I don't freak out about it.
I think I know what you're talking about. Sometimes we pick up on feelings from other people. If the person is closed off in some way, we may take it personally and think it has something to do with us. But more likely it has something to do with them. They had a quarrel with their spouse that morning. Or they're worried about their child's health. Something like that. They're preoccupied. If we're sensitive, we may notice it. And if we're anxious, we may think it has to do with us. But it's far more likely that it doesn't.

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But I feel really anxious - there are like a million things going through my mind and I've lost the person I trust.
I think your anxiety is leading you to misinterpret your nurse's reactions to you.
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