Yip, its exactly like 'happily ever after' you know I just got home to discover my ashtray not in my room, but nicely perched in the lounge! Ok, so its not a big deal but its MY ashtray, in MY room, bcoz nobody else smokes in this house, it belongs IN MY ROOM! Nephew is throwing tantrums, my bed is full of visitor stuff and my anxiety was sky high all the way here, and getting worse! Ugh now she wants to know if I'm turning in early, YESSS YES DAMMIT YES! Jordan must think me such a grouch...