Thank You DarkHeart, thats precious about your babies, I did that song with mine also,I hope thy pass it on to thier children..
I like what you said about my dad,and u no, I think your right..No one cried the whole holiday, we just went about it as we have for all my life..which is a looong time.
I tried to start a new tradition of telling funny stories about my dad, or tell of some endearing memories of him..only a few of us could manage it, but its realy too soon for some of my family members..thats ok tho..it will come in time..