Trippin,
I believe in Necessary Evil , espcially when one is being taken advantage of,If it were me, and I've been there,Id take moment to calm down, think of how Im gonna lay down the law, and give ultimatums,in a diplomatic,Southen Lady Style,take them to the wood shed..Sounds like they are definately takeing advantage of you.They seem to have no RESPECT for your kindness.so What Do You Owe Them??? A Good Talking to!Or time to tell them to move on...In my words...Ya Gotta Go !!