Kids can be a handfull at times. I think that your best bet will to be seek help from a therapist or when he gets under your skin try to say to yourself that you love him and accept him the way he is. Just repeat it several times. Eventually as time goes on you will find that he doesn't bother you as much even though nothing's really changed. The only thing changing is the way you view things. Just try to remain positive and keep you chin up! It will get better! *hugs*