I just joined the forum and have been looking for others who are in a relationship with someone with ADD. I've been married 19 years to this wonderful man and I'm finally after all this time realizing I may need some support. So congratulations for seeking it out early. I just went to additudemag.com and saw the link called "When your Spouse Has ADD". I clicked it and got directed to information on children, which was disappointing. I haven't found a good resource yet.