Oh how I wish I could take your advice, but the situation is far more delicate than even my family realize. No, I'm just going to suck it up, and play nice, and next time she wants to stay, I'll think up an excuse. Just a few more days, I can handle it, I've been through worse, much worse, I can do this. ( now to repeat that 7 times in the mirror and pray I believe it!) you guys have been great, thanks for reaching out to me during my rants, even though you're dealing with your own stuff too