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Originally Posted by kindachaotic
Don't know how old you are but one can go thru several therapist before finding the right fit.
So, don't give up. No need to suffer obsessing about this.
BTW sex therapist, the legit one's, don't touch you & you both keep your clothes on!! It's talk therapy.
Some T's delve back into your childhood or start there to help you.
Some T's help you learn coping skills to deal with current issues.
Just depends on what they feel your need is based on what you tell them.
Sex, under the right circumstances, is a natural, wonderful experience.
Hope you find a T you can relate to & keep posting.
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Originally Posted by kindachaotic
Meant to mention, about therapy, sometimes you have to deal with things that do make you feel worse or uncomfortable as you work thru issues.
It's the "learning how to process these issues" that's real work but will help you understand why you feel a certain way. Then make changes or learn coping skills or both. Also therapy is not a quick fix, it takes time.
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I'm 24...I suppose that information would be important. I've tried therapy...I've gone through several therapists. Stayed with one for a couple years. I've never made progress. I literally can't talk about these things to people I don't know. I have to be able to fully trust them first and they're really impatient or won't let me switch to someone else once the trust is broken and I'm uncomfortable around them.
And how does talk therapy help with something that's physical? I get over things by doing. I figured those sorts of therapists weren't really around anymore.