You put forth a rather confusing but interesting argument, but I cannot agree. Although being human and all our actions look good and obvious on theoretical paper, it lacks the essence of humanity that drives us to be what we are or are not. Life is more complicated than the ego's of frued or the selections of Darwin. Mordern medicine has beat frued and the average human intelligence has beat sigmund.

As to the whole dependence debate... don't most of us strive for independence and freedom? Isn't that the hart of every war, of every revolution and even every marital fight?