Perhaps you should tell him Doc. It might be good for him to know where you're coming from.

Give things a little time to sort themselves out...once your stressors have been reduced, try looking more closely at things then. Just (and not to be negative...just covering a possibility, not that I necessarily see it heading as such ) don't be upset if things don't go as planned...you cannot force yourself to love anyone, much like you cannot force someone to love you. Even if you could, that's a bad foundation to build on.

Things'll work out in the end Doc. They always do.