Since he's moved on, seeing him and talking with him while still having romantic feelings toward him hurts, I know. I think you need distance from him--otherwise it's like a raw wound being reopened constantly. You might be hoping that he'll have a change of heart, so it's hard to make that distance. But (and I'm talking to myself, too, hoping that I'll listen to my own advice) you need to create space for your own sanity's sake. You might miss an opportunity to meet someone wonderful or overlook opportunities to have fun with friends who are invested in you because of your fixation on this guy. Try and focus on yourself for a while, though I know it's hard right now. Maybe make a list of five things you'd like to do for yourself and start checking them off. He doesn't seem to warrant all the attention you're giving him and it's not contributing to your health and happiness, so try to get re-centered. Talking with friends helps. I'm speaking from personal experience. : ) Take care of yourself . . .

Sally