Recently told my wife of twenty years of an affair I had just three weeks ago. Their was not sex involved but I did tell this other woman(a old friend I'd forgotten for twenty-five year's) that I wanted to hold her, kiss her and make love to her. We only text each other and haven't been in contact just a month.I've never cheated on my wife and thought I was happily married. My wife and I are 40 and in love. Where did these feelings come from? Why now? We can't go on without an explanation.