I really don't mean this to be mean or upsetting, but maybe if you believe that life is sent to give you hell then that is what you will experience.. untill you decide otherwise. I think our minds are very powerful, and we create how we experience life. If we want something different we might have to create it as well. All I mean Shattered is that our perception impacts us and our experiences in a big way.

I guess to me I see it as why not bother? We are here now.