That's quite a story. And I admire you for your bravery in being able to post it all here. I am about your age and also experience pretty bad panic attacks from time to time(heart palpitations, dizziness, shortness of breath, basically every symptom you can imagine). There was a six month period where I had multiple extreme panic attacks daily, but now after therapy I hardly have them at all. There is hope, it doesn't seem like it while you are having them but you can learn to cope with them and maybe even eliminate them all together. I'm sorry to say that in this situation I don't have much advice for you except to try and find a good T if you can. Maybe someone who specializes in panic disorder although it sounds like you might have more going on here than just that.
I had to say someting about your relationship though because this section of your post really caught my eye:
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as although I care for him alot, we don't see eye too eye on alot and we don't seem to enjoy each others company atall
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That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. I think its normal to not see eye to eye on a few things with your partner, but when you don't enjoy each others company that isn't good.
I know things might seem impossible right now, but don't give up. I have faith in you. And things can and will get better. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk at all. *hugs*